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Let Them Be Children

October 15th, 2009

Recently, our president gave a speech that was to be listened to by all children in schools. Some schools opted to not listen to the broadcast and some asked their children at school if they wanted to listen to it or go out to play. Naturally, we all know what the choice was that the children made.

Some radio talk shows received calls from adults expressing their thoughts about the result of how the situation was handled and turned out. It wasn’t too hard to guess who were the ones who felt our President was snubbed. This all seems to have turned into politics, once more, between the parties in our nation.

My question about this entire fiasco is, “What are we doing to our children?” As I grew up, I remember listening to “world affairs” like “The Bombing of Pearl Harbor” and then, if I remember right, we were not forced to listen but we “knew” there was something different, and serious enough to make us want to listen and find out what it was all about even though we were young. Children are not so dumb that they do not know when something important is taking place that could affect them and that’s the time to let them decide if they want to listen or continue to play. Just the tone of the day reaches them to make them want to find out what happened, however, they don’t have to have it drummed into them that they are being rude if they don’t listen to a broadcast. Don’t force them to hear and think about events that can affect their minds, rather than letting them live their formative years carefree and without all the worries adults engage in. If the dignitary is present, in person, that is something they should be aware of because it may not happen again, however, there are many opportunities, as they get older, for them to hear the same person speak on the radio, or by other means of getting the news out to them. In the meantime, let them be involved in something that really interests them, which is playing at their age.

I grew up, not even knowing whether my parents were Democrats or Republicans. They didn’t speak negatively about our President, whether they agreed with him or not. I didn’t hear them speak negatively about friends, relatives, officials, or anyone. I truly believe they would have spoken honestly about their feelings with each other, in their discussion of everyday occurrences, however, they would have done that at a time and place where we would not hear it.

Presidents certainly never dedicated any of their “speeches” to us children and we would not have been expected to take time from our schooling, or play time, to sit and listen to him. Politics were pretty much kept among adults to be discussed. We were children and were not expected to deal with problems of the adults who had created them in the first place.

Being taught that we were to show respect to those in authority, I’m sure

Anger Management For Children – Is it Really Child’s Play?

October 15th, 2009

Anger management for children is a great opportunity to learn more about what your child is experiencing or feeling during their outbursts. There are some key factors that can influence a child’s behavior: adult actions and the media’s impact. These innocent children have been exposed to some aggression and they are using what they see to prove others wrong during disagreements.

Adult Influence

Some children in abusive homes are exposed to angry adults for hours at a time. Soon, they use these same behaviors in the presence of other kids – arguing and fighting. The explosiveness can turn into a concern if the child does not attend a seminar on anger management for children. Aggressive adults should mind their behavior in the presence of children because their actions can influence the way their child interacts with their peers. If you must have an argument, please take it to another room or take it away from the child by all means.

Media’s Impact

Children are growing up faster than ever because of the R-rated movies, violent cartoons, and crude humor displayed in the media. Anger management has its limits once the child is exposed to more than 3-4 hours of this kind of entertainment because the child will follow everything they see. A child’s ability to act out previous scenes of the media can cause a big problem in elementary schools. The children begin to display aggressive attitudes towards one another that lead to conflicts. Anger management classes for children could make the situation right for everyone – including the adults.

Make It Right

To counter this, anger management for children should be approached with a more sensual, in-depth talk for the child to discuss what makes them upset. Knowing these factors could help the child channel their energy into more productive activities such as reading or sports. Their distinctive behaviors can be molded to change into more positive, friendly ways if taught right. Anger management for children is available in health department classes or elementary counseling sessions.

Check with your child’s school or day care about enrolling them in one of these courses to learn ways to control their anger towards others. The most you can do is watch, learn, and listen to everything your child has to say. You may learn that some of the stuff you did influenced this behavior in a negative way.

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Is Santa Real? Thoughts on What I’ll Tell My Children

October 13th, 2009

In 1897, a young girl named Virginia O’Hanlon wrote a letter to “The New York Sun” questioning whether Santa was real. Journalist Francis Church wrote the response, in which he assured her, “Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus.” It soon became one of the most famous editorials ever written.

My son is eight now, and he still believes in Santa, but I’m sure he’ll soon be asking the same question as Virginia. I’ve encouraged the myth of Santa Claus with Santa letters and trips to sit on Old St. Nick’s lap at the mall. So what will I say when he asks me if Santa is real?

I’ve learned that sometimes the best answer to tough questions is another question: what do YOU think? Kids don’t always need a lengthy explanation. So first I’ll try to find out what he thinks. If he still believes, I’ll assure him that he must be right. But if he has already come to the conclusion that Santa doesn’t exist, I’ll let him in on the secret.

When I tell him that Santa doesn’t exist in the way he’s depicted in songs and movies, sliding down chimneys and leaving gifts in the middle of the night, I’ll also tell him that Santa’s spirit of giving is very much alive and was inspired by Saint Nicholas, a real man who was known for his generosity and love of children.

Santa’s spirit is also very real in the behavior he inspires in all of us. We don’t need the fear of being on Santa’s Naughty list to be kind, generous and polite, but the holidays do seem to bring out those qualities in most people, and usually in greater abundance than is seen throughout the rest of the year.

I believe in the magic of Santa Claus and the holiday season. I believe life is magical, wonderful and inexplicable, just like old S. Nick, but you have to be willing to believe in the magic for it to work. Without belief, you may only see a world full of injustice and pain. But when you believe, you can see the world through the eyes of a child, with all the wonder and glory children give to each moment of every day.

I hope when my son finds out Santa is more symbolic than real, he won’t be too disappointed. And I hope he will continue to share the magic with his little sister, who is barely old enough to know about Santa. I think our world would be much sadder without dear Santa Claus. I hope my son agrees.

Lisa Howard tries to keep the spirit of Santa alive for all kids by offering free “Dear Santa” letter templates so children can write their own letters to Santa Claus and printable Santa letter templates so Santa’s helpers can make sure the jolly old elf writes back.

Helping Your Sensitive Child Tolerate Bathing

October 13th, 2009

Some kids love bath time and enjoy splashing in the tub and playing with their favorite floating toys. But other children dread bathing. For these sensitive kids, the water is always either too hot or too cold, or frighteningly intense as it sprays out of the showerhead. They may be agitated by the sounds, smells, and lighting in the bathroom, and may be very particular about the texture of the towels. If your child balks at getting clean, here are some tips for making bath time more enjoyable.

If your toddler hates the bath, start small. Place your naked child in a dry bathtub along with a dishpan or plastic bin filled with warm, soapy water (have another one filled with warm water nearby, for rinsing). Let her use bath toys, a washcloth, and soap to play with, and perhaps provide a doll that she can wash. Wash your child using the soapy water and rinse with the water from the other container. Or, bathe her in a plastic tub-within-a-tub. (Never leave a child unattended in the bath.).

Fill the tub with the bathroom door closed. Some children find the sound of rushing water filling the tub irritating and upsetting. Try filling the tub with the door closed and don’t bring your child to the bathroom until the bath is ready.

Make the bathroom a quiet haven. Bathrooms are often echoey. If your child is sensitive to sharp, harsh sounds and echoes, place plenty of towels and rugs in the room to absorb these sounds.

Change the way you rinse his hair. Many kids hate having their hair rinsed because they have to lean their head backward, which can feel awkward. Have him lean forward so that his face is downward while rinsing (a tear-free shampoo is a must). Use a visor, washcloth, or goggles to prevent the water from flowing down his face and into his eyes.

Alter the temperature. Let your child regulate bath or shower temperature, within reason (be careful with small children who are tempted to adjust the faucet by themselves). For safety’s sake, set the temperature on your water heater to a safe maximum level. Then too, you can have your child take a bath or shower after others in the family do so that the room is already warmed up. You might want to warm up the towel in the dryer for a few minutes, too.

Provide different textures. Some kids find soap and shampoo unpleasantly slimy but love soap that’s foamy. Your child may prefer to wash with a rougher or softer washrag. Experiment with a nylon net puff, body brush, shower mitt, or bath sponge to see what he tolerates best. Rub him vigorously with a towel or pat him gently and hold him tightly, whichever feels more comforting to him after his bath.

Watch the artificial ingredients. Some children react badly to artificial colorings not only in foods but in bath soaps and shampoos as well. If you suspect this is a problem, look for products without these colorings. Be forewarned that “natural” baby and kid-care products sold in health food stores are often not tear-free.

Vary the pressure. Just as you might find it uncomfortable to shower with less or more pressure than you’re used to, your child might prefer to have his hair rinsed with less or more pressure. Use a large container of water for rinsing; the extra weight of the water might feel better on his head than sprinkling from a shower or a cup. Or, sprinkle water from a sprinkling can (often available in kids’ beach toy collections) or cup to rinse.

Massage her head. A deep, gentle massage of her scalp beforehand may help your child feel more comfortable having her hair washed and rinsed. Some parents swear by using a vibrating hairbrush or hand-held vibrator pressed gently to the child’s head just before hair washing.

Help her to feel secure. Sometimes a child is afraid of falling over or being unaware of where her body is in space when she closes her eyes to have her hair rinsed. If so, use a small amount of tear-free shampoo so she can keep her eyes open if she likes and have her hold onto you. Or, press down on her shoulders to help her know where her body is when her eyes are closed.

Give him a sense of control and predictability. Talk him through the steps of the bath. Warn him that you’re about to rinse his hair and allow him a chance to feel the temperature of the water on her hand before wetting his entire head. You might use a hand-held sprayer connected to the faucet so your child can control the spray when he rinses himself (the force is often gentler than that of a showerhead).

By gently working with your child to make bath time more pleasant, you can encourage good hygiene and good fun too!

copyright 2009 Nancy Peske

Nancy Peske is the coauthor of the book Raising a Sensory Smart Child: The Definitive Handbook for Helping Your Child with Sensory Processing Issues and sends out a weekly newsletter of practical tips for parents and professionals who work with children who have sensory processing issues, available at http://www.sensorysmartnews.com Article adapted from Raising a Sensory Smart Child copyright 2005-2009 Lindsey Biel, OTR/L and Nancy Peske, from Penguin Books available wherever books are sold.

Potty Training 3 Year Old Children

October 12th, 2009

Statistics say that most children are potty trained by the age of 2, but this is definitely no hard and fast rule. Many parents only start potty training their children at age 3, so there is no need to worry if your child is not quite potty trained at this age yet. In this article I will share a very effective method of potty training 3 year old children that you can start using today.

The advantage of potty training an “older” child is that most of the required developmental skills will already be present. A lot of children can already talk at the age of 3, so communication and participation is normally a lot easier. The child will also be more aware of bodily functions than the average 2 year old. This basically means that physical and emotional readiness in the child is normally not an issue at this age.

For this reason, one of the most effective ways of potty training a 3 year old is Dr. Phil’s one day potty training method. With this method, a special doll that wets is used to teach the child about using the potty. This method uses the well known concept that the best way to learn something is to teach it. The child teaches the doll to use the potty and in the process learns to use the potty themselves.

While this method is very effective, it is a bit more expensive than other methods because you will have to buy a special wetting doll (available for boys and girls) and a few other items that will be used during the training. It normally takes one day or less for the child to get rid of the diapers using this method, so it is one of the quickest methods available.

Visit Potty Training Secrets for more information on how the one day method works, the items required and how to get started.

The Ben 10 Alien Force Story

October 12th, 2009

Ben fights these evil villains with the help of his grandpa, Max and cousin, Gwen. They run into strange evil characters, such as Vilgax, who is after the Omnitrix, Dr. Animo the mad scientist, and vampire clown, Zombozo. Cartoon Network produces Ben 10, which originally aired December 2005.

Ben was just an ordinary boy when he spent the summer with his grandpa and cousin on a camping trip. After fighting with Gwen, Ben retreats into the woods and stumbles upon an alien pod that look like a watch. This mysterious watch-like pod contains alien DNA and allows people to live like an alien. The Omnitrix, as it is called, permanently attached itself to Ben, giving him the ability to be one of 10 different aliens. Ben can change into one of these aliens by a control dial, but Azmuth, the original creator of the Omnitrix, placed safeguards so that the Omnitrix will only work properly for the Master Control. Ben must get used to constant alien changes and other unpredictable controls from the Omnitrix.

Ben 10: Alien Force is a sequel to the original Ben 10 cartoon. It takes place five years after Ben discovers the Omnitrix. This series began airing on Cartoon Network in April 2008. Cartoon Network Upfront confirmed the new series, Ben 10: Evolutions, which will follow 16-year old Ben as a well-known hero. In this new series, Ben has a new Omnitrix that will take him to new and mysterious places.

No cartoon is successful without action figures and assorted toys. Ben 10 action figures come in several different characters and playsets. Bandai

Cheap Toys Online

October 12th, 2009

Hello there everybody! If you are a constant reader of my , you would have realized that I am constantly talking about buying toys from online. If you still have not got it by now, I would like to tell you that buying toys online has its many benefits. Hence I would urge you to buy your toys online from now on. For this article, I would like to give you an overview of the types of toys that you can actually buy online.

Toys for the Family

There are plenty of toys online for the whole family. Starting from the youngest, you can actually purchase cheap baby toys for the babies. If you have kids or children, there are all sorts of toys for the them as well. Choose from soft plush toys and Barbie dolls for the girls to the car toys, transformers or Lego toys for the boys. If you have a teenager in the family, maybe you can get them some remote controlled toys or more high tech toys like gadgets or electronic gizmos. Even for mum and dad, they can get some cheap adult toys from online, at the safety and privacy of home.

Toys for Collectors

There are toys for collectors as well. Interested in movie figurines or action figures? You can get them online. What about limited edition memorabilia or move tie-ins? You can get those online as well. Well ok these toys may not come cheap but the easiest way to get them would be online. There are many things that cannot be found in the local toy store, and most likely can only be found in unique shops. Looking for these items online would be much easier than going from store to store to find that precious one of a kind toy.

Toys for Puzzle Lovers

This is also another special niche that I thought I would mention briefly in this article. There are stores online which specialize in puzzle toys. These toys can be just simple jigsaw puzzles. or shaped puzzles, 3D puzzle, or maybe even other puzzle accessories. The biggest puzzle toy I would say is the Rubik’s cube. Now there is a new Rubik known as the Rubik’s 360. These puzzle toys are very very cheap but can keep you occupied for a very long period of time.

Conclusion

The above are just a few examples of the types of cheap toys that you can buy online. With the internet, you need not hunt for cheap toy sales or discounted toys anymore as all these would be available online with the click of a mouse. Buying cheap toys online is easier, much more convenient, safer and cheaper than ever. As mentioned above, the range and availability of cheap toys is seriously better than any conventional local toy store. Best of all there are many cheap toy stores online; shopping engines allow you to find cheap toys for sale, while another big major toy retailer is Amazon which is a very good place to search for good toy bargain. The site stocks many toys and can deliver the toys fast as well. If you are starting to buy some toys as gifts for this coming Christmas, I urge you to visit the links below to order some cheap toys online.

My Name is Lincoln and I like writing about toys. As mentioned in the article, it is smarter to buy cheap toys online than to buy them from the local toy store which has less variety of toys. Toys bought online are also much cheaper. If you are interested to search for more cheap toys, you may want to check out my cheap toys online blog to look for cheap toys.

Dora Dolls – A Fun and Exciting Treat For Little Girls

October 12th, 2009

The Dora mania is really picking up in all parts of the world! From the famous cartoon show Dora the Explorer in Nickelodeon channel, the lead character together with her friends will be knocking right at your doorstep to give your kids fun and enjoyment. Yes, it’s true! Dora dolls are now created for every little girl’s satisfaction.

Imagine how a 7 year-old girl turns every little kid’s world an enjoyable one by letting them participate in her every day’s quest while teaching them some fundamentals of counting and simple Spanish words. Now, Dora Marquez is almost in all stores ready to be picked up to play with your little ones.

Dolls have played a significant role in a young girl’s life for so many years now. It existed as a way for them to pretend how it is to be a mother teaching them how to care for other people’s need, which would generally be their real role when they are already grown-ups. As time progressed, dolls turned out as something to looked at in terms of fashion. It teaches every little girl how to dress and act as a lady; it has now become a new outlet of every girl’s imagination. This is what Dora dolls have to offer your kids, to let them imagine and experience the adventures of the Hispanic little girl.

Dora dolls come with different shapes and sizes. Your little girl can dress Dora however she wants if you bought her the Dora doll package, which comes along with a lot colorful, and beautiful clothes made especially for the Dora doll. You can have a huggable Dora Rainy Day Doll in her yellow coat and hat, always ready when the rain pours out. Or why not bring home a Dancing Dora and let her perform ballet. You can also have Dora in a baker outfit, a perfect company when baking some treats for the kids. Let your daughter experience the fun and excitement by bringing home a set of Dora doll.

Go ahead and find the right Dora doll set for your kid! After all, it is not that pricey. Besides, why worry with spending a little for your child if you will bring her happiness by doing so?

Don’t let your daughter miss the exciting adventures of Dora! Just make sure that the toys you buy will be safe for her. What the doll looks like is a concern but it is not as important as making sure that it will be safe to play with. It is better to check on the material that makes up the product to know whether it is hazardous to your child’s health.

Also check for the age recommendations that are written on the box of the toy. It is better to follow these recommendations because it tells you whether the doll is suitable for the age of your child. Parents should also consider the behavior of their child, whether the kid is mature enough to handle the doll and its small parts. Supervise your child when playing with it for she may swallow or put the doll in her mouth which is very risky to her health.

Dora doll manufacturers guarantees you not just the joy but your child’s safety as well. Lots of it can be bought through online shopping. What are you waiting for? Go now, visit the net and give your daughter a fun treat with these cool Dora dolls!

Low Jeremy has been a hobbyist writer for more than 3 years. During this free time, he contributes informative articles on various topics like health, electronics and gadget reviews for websites. His latest contribution talks about credit card imprinter where he reviewed among the popular brands of credit card swiper and other accompanying accessories.

Nine Ways to Keep Your Teenager Safe

October 12th, 2009

You worried about them as children. Now that they’re big children, you worry about them even more. Here are nine ways to keep your teenager safe:

  1. For goodness sakes, it’s not 1893. Make sure to educate them about the birds and bees, including information about birth control and STDs. If you want them to abstain, the best thing you can do is give them the honest lowdown on all the nasty viruses, bacteria, and bugs that lurk in the sexually active world. The next best thing is a condom, and tell them that. In fact, take them to the store and insist that they buy some condoms. They will be sheepish about it, but it drives home the point and makes it easier for them to do if they really need them.
  2. Keep them from behind the wheel of a car, especially after dark. This is the most likely way your teenager will die if they are to die young. Lay down the law, and set serious conditions. One time home with beer on the breath, and your driving privileges are rescinded until you’re 18, kid.
  3. Keep them busy. Insist that they complete their homework. Insist that they engage in at least one extracurricular activity at school, whether it is a sport or the chess club. Give them lots of chores. That may sound old fashioned, but there’s a reason kids were so well behaved back in the good old days.
  4. Keep track of their money. If they ask for money, don’t give it to them unless they have a really good reason. If they have a part-time job, insist that they open a savings account with you as a joint account holder. If they start spending a lot of money, something is wrong. Interrogate them until you find out what they’re up to.
  5. Give them honest information about the dangers of alcohol and drugs.

How to Stop Bullying Others in 4 Simple Steps

October 12th, 2009

Most of the articles that you read in regards to bullying deal with how to stop a bully from victimizing you. However, there is a need for those which deal with teaching an individual how to stop bullying others. If you have made the decision to turn away from a life of bullying others, then the information within this article can help you do just that. The four simple steps below can help you turn away from a life of violence and make up for the things that you have done in your past.

1. Let Others Know You Are Done

The first thing that you must do if you want to stop bullying is to let others around you know that you are done harming others. Chances are that if you have been a bully for any length of time, others around you know you by your reputation for being mean. In order to move forward with a new way of life, it is important to ensure that everyone around you knows of your new intentions. Often your actions can speak louder than words. Try doing something nice for others, and people will begin to see the truth.

2. Find a New Set of Friends

It is a pretty safe bet that once you turn away from your previous actions and stop bullying, your so called friends will begin to drift away. These same friends may even turn on you and begin bullying you in return. Even if your friends stick by your side, it may be best to look for a new set of friends who do not have violence and humiliation in mind. By associating with those who are kind and peaceful in nature, you ensure that you are not tempted to turn back to your old ways.

3. Earn Respect Don’t Command It

Now that you have stopped bullying others, you have lost your way of making others respect you. You will find that in order to get respect now, you will have to earn it. This is done by doing things that command respect through actions, kind words, or accomplishments; you can quickly regain the respect that you lost when you stopped bullying it out of others. It may even surprise you that respect that is earned is much more rewarding than that which is forced.

4. Make Amends

One of the hardest things you will have to do when you decide to stop bullying others is to make amends for all of the mean things that you have done. If you were a bully for any length of time, you probably hurt a lot of people in a variety of different ways. To truly turn over a new leaf and start over, you must ask forgiveness from these individuals, and try to make up for the pain that you caused.

If you have decided that you want to stop bullying and become a better person, there are several steps that will need to be taken. The four steps above can set you on the right path to making amends for your past and moving towards a new and peaceful life.

Raz Chan is a professional martial arts instructor specializing in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, civilian self-defense, and women’s cardio kickboxing, . To find out more tips on how to stop bullying you can follow his blog at: How To Stop Bullying Today For a limited time you can get a FREE copy of his report “Stop Bullying & Build Child Confidence: Perspectives of a Bullying Victim” by visiting Stop Bullying Report

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